Demand Letter

6/23/2010

Anthony D. Parnell, M.S.W.

2202 So. Figueroa St., #232

Los Angeles, CA 90007

Mr. Parnell,

You entered into a relationship with me under false pretenses and, it now appears, solely for your personal financial gain.  You fraudulently obtained monies from me knowing that I was completely unaware of your illicit, anonymous and public sexual activities, activities which you hid from me because you knew that my financial support would end if those activities became known.  You took money from me by deceit and now that I have discovered your predatory behaviors, I want to be paid those amounts which you had already agreed to pay back.  Although, for purposes of bringing this to an immediate close, I am prepared to forego approximately $7,400.00 (for additional monies including meals out, groceries, entertainment, trips, and storage), I want to be paid the full amount of $3,100.00, which I have detailed below, within 14 days (and for you to provide me with a promissory note for any portion that you cannot presently pay).  Unless this matter is resolved by that time, I intend to vigorously pursue all formal legal and other remedies, and dedicate myself to obtaining recovery of the full amount of all monies that you have swindled from me, as well as damages for the harm you have inflicted.

Date/Time of Request             Amount Requested                 Action Taken

2/23/09   7:41pm                     $1,200.00                                Debited from Ms. Johnson’s

                                                                                                checking account on 2/24/09

3/5/09     3:13pm                       $500.00                                 Deposited into Mr. Parnell’s  

                                                                                                checking account

7/17/09   1:35pm                       $700.00                                 Deposited into Mr. Parnell’s

                                                                                                checking account

9/4/09      9:26am                      $100.00                                 Deposited into Mr. Parnell’s

                                                                                                checking account on 9/9/09

                                                                                                at 4:05pm

10/1/09   4:00pm Approx.         $400.00                                 Taken from Ms. Johnson’s

                                                                                                home safe.

10/1/09   6:00pm Approx.         $200.00                                 Taken from Ms. Johnson’s

                                                                                                home safe.

Total Due                              $3,100.00

SEEKING SEXY, ATTRACTIVE WOMAN

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Seeking Sexy, Attractive Woman - m4w - 40 (Pasadena)

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Date: 2010-04-11, 12:30AM PDT
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I'm a 40 year old African-American man looking for NSA. I like women with an athletic build, but I'm open to a thick woman with a firm figure.

Open to all Races.

No photo. No response. 
Anthony Parnell, M.S.W.

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Well Hung Black Man

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Well Hung Black Man - m4w - 40 (Pasadena)

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Date: 2010-05-09, 12:39AM PDT
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Well Hung Black Man who also is attractive and physically fit is looking for an attractive and physically fit woman with stamina.

Send photo for response. 
Anthony Parnell, M.S.W.

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Published Author Seeks Benefactor

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Published Author Seeks Benefactor - m4w - 40 (Los Angeles)

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Date: 2009-07-09, 3:44PM PDT
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Published Author Seeks Benefactor

I am a self-employed published author who is still in the transition phase of establishing myself. I'm seeking a mature woman to assist me in this transition and process of establishing myself.

I am an African-American man who is educated (master's degree), well traveled, very articulate, personable and physically fit ('5 "9, 165 lbs.). I play basketball an average of one to two times per week. I also:
- Play piano
- Give great massages
- Write amazing poems

Some of my other interests include jazz music, visiting museums and art galleries. I am a very goal-oriented, mature man who has no children.

I'm seeking a mature, financially established woman who is very career-oriented or has not yet found the right life partner. 

Anthony Parnell, M.S.W.

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Attractive Artist Seeks Generous Lady

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Attractive Artist Seeks Generous Lady - 40 (Los Angeles)

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I’m seeking a mature, financially established woman. I’m an educated, well traveled, physically fit, articulate but down to earth African-American man. I also give great massages.

Send me an email if interested in seeing a photo. We can instant message and, then, talk by phone. 

Anthony Parnell, M.S.W.

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Warning!
Anthony D. Parnell 

Anthony Parnell, M.S.W.
aka: Anthony Dwane Parnell
aka:onepoet1love@yahoo.com
aka:onepoet1love@gmail.com

aka: Anthony@anthonyparnell.com 

Black Planet-onepoet1love

Elance-Anthony Parnell 

Plenty of Fish-Ajazzmusicman 

Phone: (213) 973-8179

Phone: (626) 388-1538

Phone: (323) 868-7384

http://www.anthonydparnell.com/

I want this information to serve as a warning to individuals about Anthony D. Parnell’s true character and motivation. It seems we give leeway to those who identity themselves as creative, intellectuals, spiritual, or experts. Anthony Parnell uses his training as a mental health therapist and his gift of words to manipulate and exploit people for his personal gain. While he may try to give the impression of a successful businessman, he actually lives a parasitic lifestyle, using people he feels are inferior for a place to live, money, free food, or sex. I met him in July of 2008 and within 3 months he submitted his resignation. He quit his job at D’Veal family and youth Services on 12/19/08 without the benefit of another job, enough business clients to support himself, or unemployment benefits. What he did have, however, was a sucker like me, someone he could deceive. I was the contingency plan; I had a place to live, a car, plenty of food, and money. By April 1st 2009 he began spending time at my house and sleeping on the couch of a friend. Anthony D. Parnell spent a total of 22 months using me for his own financial gain. It finally ended on 5/9/2010 when I found the Craigslist ad he placed in the casual encounters section for sex entitled “Well Hung Black Man.” He gets bored easily and has a constant need for stimulation. He has always utilized Craigslist, Plenty of Fish (ajazzmusicman) and other dating sites to attract and use woman though the use of poetry. That’s what he’s doing when he’s up late at night “working” on the computer. He specifically targets “mature” women who have money to support him in exchange for sexual favors and has placed ads on Craigslist entitled, “Attractive Artist Seeks Generous Lady” and “Published Author Seeks Benefactor.” Need I say more? These are HIS words. We all know the name given to women who do this sort of thing, now what’s the name for men? Gigolo comes to mind. If you think I’m a women scorned, you’ve missed the point. I am a woman who is exposing the game and laying out what’s beneath the superficial charm and false persona. He picked the wrong one this time. Anthony Dwane Parnell is willing to risk his professional credentials as a M.S.W. and reputation as a writer and business strategist on this nonsense. He informed me that he utilizes the services of happy ending massage parlors, and hookers. He has mastered of use of manipulation techniques and will try to gain your sympathy. Be aware that he will tell you about his family tragedy, his financial set-backs, how his father or grandfather treated him, or how his ex-wife hit him. This is a pity play. He will tell you that you’re like family so that you will feel obligated to him. He will, of course, attack me directly; he’ll say I had something to do with his car being repossessed. What he will fail to tell you (deception through lies of omission) is that he hadn’t made a car payment in 10 months and that I paid 3 of the 6 payments that were actually made. He believes he is special and will never admit to any wrongdoing. He feels no guilt or remorse for how his actions have negatively affected other people and will actively seek to justify them. The marker of conscienceless behavior. He says he wants someone to pray with, but in reality he wants to prey upon trusting people. I sent him a letter dated 6/23/2010 demanding my money back. Shortly thereafter, I received an e-mail asking if we could be “friends.” I instantly suspected another attempt at manipulation, especially when terms like “value you as a person” and “like family” were used. I was right; he simply didn’t want to pay back the money even though he stated that he would, “give you back your money and get some new hoes.” I have yet to receive my money back as outlined in the demand letter and even recently paid him for writing assistance. I take full responsibility for not following my instincts; hopefully someone will learn from my mistakes and heed my warning. Also, just so you know,  he's one of those color struck ignorant "negroes" who runs around telling you how "light-skinned" and "high-yellow" he is.  He prefers non-Black woman because he finds them more submissive and easier to manipulate.  He'll date Black woman, but she better have money!

By the way, he’s still on that couch two years later!! Is this who you want to get advice on how to be a success in your personal and professional life? Anthony D. Parnell, CEO of NTM Solutions states that he’s a business consultant on Linkedin and Facebook, but don’t be fooled by his grandiose plans or you’ll be paying the bill. He's a con artist!